So all of your trouble with DOCS and losing your right to fathering your son is because of this long ago one-time (consensual) encounter? I agree that this is far from paedophilia.

It reminds me of a 20/20 news program edition about high school males who had sex with their high school girlfriends. In one case, due to a one year age difference where the male was older, and a mother's temporary anger at her daughter, the male was turned in to the authorities for statutory rape. (I'm trying to remember the details, most are forgotten...). But the male ended up with a record for the rest of his life as a sexual predator even though he ended up marrying this girlfriend and even though the mother withdrew her complaint/charges to police and wanted desperately for the police to withdraw. And when the couple had children, he could not go to the park with them because he was not allowed to be around other children unattended...and other such ridiculous stuff (for the rest of his life). It's authority gone mad.

I wish I could remember the details of the program as there were several males who were unrealistically punished for similar.

And the example you gave is another amazing contrast of men that received a mere 2 years probation for such viciousness and obvious intentional cruelty.

Anyway, good on ya for being so candid and sharing the details of your ordeal. It makes the injustice of your case clear.