From a convo with Bashar...

Q: How can we remove the political polarization in our country?
B: You can’t.
Q: Why not?
B: Because you can never change the world you are in. You can only change yourself and shift to a parallel earth, that already contains the people that are more representative of the vibration you’ve changed within yourself. You never change anyone. You only change yourself. And take yourself to a world already more reflective of that change.
Q: Ok, I understand, that…
B: Are you sure?
Q: … But these people still exist, who are very, very negative.
B: Who cares?
Why do you choose to be affected by them? And remain in the vibration of their world?
Q: But shouldn’t we care, because’ we’re supposed to help them?
B: I don’t mean care that way.
Q: Ah! Ok.
B: I’m saying why do you choose to match the frequency, of those who’s vibration you are not compatible with?
Q: Oh, yeah. It’s true, too.
B: Yeah.
Q: Forgot about that.
B: You’re the one perpetuating that reality then, along with them, aren’t you?
Q: Ouh.
B: Do you love unconditionally, or don’t you?
Q: Yeah, yeah… that’s true.
B: Yeah, yeah.
Q: That’s true. That’s true.
B: Yes, I know.
Unconditionally love means, you share - options - with everyone, and give them the opportunity to choose something that might be more representative of being in alignment with their true natural self AND at the same time unconditionally love means, allowing them to choose whatever they choose.
Q: Even if they’re crazy? Love them unconditionally.
B: Why not?
Because you see again: being obvious…
Q: Yes.
B: … if you don’t allow them to choose what they prefer, why should they allow you to choose, what you prefer. Because all you’re doing is putting condition on them in the same way you say you don’t want them to put conditions on you.
Q: Oooh. Ok. I didn’t look
B: Look in the mirror.
Q: Yeah. Oh yes.
B: It’s allowing them to choose, not making them choose, not needing them to choose. All of this information that we share with you, just to use the word this way again, I believe you’ll understand the way we mean it now. We don’t care if you pay attention to it. We’re doing what we do, because this is who we are.
Q: Yes.
B: We have no other choice, but to do this. Because THIS is what excites us.
If you pay attention - wonderful. If you don’t - wonderful.
Because you are an eternal, infinite being. Indestructable.
So who cares what you believe today, you’ll believe something different tomorrow anyway.
Q: So my goal is to integrate that.
B: Integrate it. It’s not a goal. Just be the integration. Be the balancing point. Be the living example that allows them to see in you that it might be worthwhile to choose the ideas that you are living. But be allowing at the same time because you know, that whatever they choose, they need to learn something from what they’ve chosen, remember the story of the butterfly we’ve just told you?
Q: Yes.
B: If you force your help on someone, you’re not helping. Not really. And any time you believe you actually have to force your point of view, or that someone should adopt your point of view; all you’re actually saying is – you don’t really believe in in the power of your point of view. Otherwise why would you have to force it on anyone?
Q: That’s true, but…
B: I know.
Q: May I, may I elaborate a …
B: Of course.
Q: a little bit.
B: Of course, elaborate to your heart’s content.
Q: Ok. So… some of these people,
B: Yes… these people…
Q: they are us, and we are them…
B: exactly.
Q: but … they’re pretty nasty.
B: Yes. They are choosing to be, primarily, because they have never taught themselves, or been taught by anyone how to truly find their power. They are afraid. Because the believe they are powerless. Therefore when someone believes they have no power, they will try to control everything because they don’t wanna be alone. You know the phrase on your planet: “Misery loves company.”?
Q: Yes.
B: Well the idea is, if you teach them, that they ARE capable to be self-empowered, then they won’t have to be afraid and they won’t have to try controlling others. Because they will know they’re already in control. And they can relax.
Q: What if they don’t want to be taught?
B: Then they don’t want to be taught. And you have done the service of giving them the opportunity and the option. Then simply move on your way. Knowing that no matter what they choose to do, it has absolutely no effect on your life, other than the effect you choose to match.
Q: Ok.
B: It doesn’t matter what anyone else’s intention toward you is, it only matters what meaning you give to the situation that you believe is true for you. That’s what determines the effect you experience in your life, regardless of what anyone else chooses to believe or do.
Because if you are on one vibratory level and they are on another, there is no way they can affect you, without your agreement!
Q: Hooh! Thank you.
B: Hooh.
© Darryl Anka