Alisa I've been wanting to reply to this story again for a while now, but I thought I already did it wasn't until I reread that I notice I haven't! I do appologize! I love hearing your stories so keep writing them. I must admit that I laughed at the part about the scrabble puzzle lol! she annoyed you that much huh? and I can't ever imagine YOU being so angry and brass! If I haven't heard this from anybody but yourself I would have said "no way not my Alisa" LOL smile but I am proud of you for not backing down and showing H what you really were made of! it's actually kinda weird how you had a yin and yang feelings with her. It's like you dislike her but then you don't. You want her to leave but at the same time you miss her. This is indeed a strange relationship to have with a total stranger. Did you think you got more angry and annoyed with her since your husband said she reminded of you? maybe your psyche interpreted that as a insult kinda like a "how dare you" thing which made you have more disdain for her. All in all this was a very interesting story to hear. Thank you for sharing it with us!