What is the normal human reactions under these circumstances. When you know everything in side you, Knows your not that person?.
Why doesnt anybody believe this is happening that can help?. yet rather just reject and refuse to offer any form of assistance.

What is the normal human reactions, when someone murders your family/your life and steals the children?. And above all murdered the love tween two normal humans.
What does a Man do, in normal thinking ?.

Keep fighting to prove your innocence, dont give up

how?.
No money.
If I could get DOCS into a court room, That will all I would need. I wont need a lawyer.
But, How DO I get Them there to start it off?.

Have you rung Victims of Crime? You fit their criteria and you should get that counselling for free.
I personally think you need to discuss these issues with someone who would be objective and maybe help you move on a bit?
I know your health is affected through the stress of it all and I know that you don't have that many supports in your life.

But having said this, never forget what happened and still work towards some justification but also get some personal help for your well being to cope with carrying the load.

I rang an organisation that I am unknown to and told them some stuff as I wanted to ask questions, I received the feedback that I am sounding angry about what I have encountered in the past few years and it was suggested to me to obtain counselling. I think I will pursue this avenue for myself.
My current problem is that I am so time poor where do I get time for this?

This is all very interesting.

I packed my eldest daughter off to live with her father today (her antics are one of the reasons why I haven't been around much lately).

I hold DoCS to blame for a lot of her behaviour... For 2 1/2 hears my family have been shredded - yet they forget about the children who still live in the family home and the impact that it has on them seeing their one parent fight with tooth and nail and seeing it all go to pot because that parent can't do a dang thing.

Rainbowchaser, you hit the nail on the head....This is exactly what is happening in our household, the impact that this has had on the family is not recoverable.....and there is nothing I can do about it.

It is so hard, I can see where DS is coming from, we are fighting a government that is above the law, and in all honesty if you dont have money behind you, you are basically screwed...

If i had a spare 20,000, and just walked into a lawyer office, and hired someone, gave him the money and said do your job, im sure he would, but because we dont have any spare, we are bait, just being abused time after time.

TIG: please forgive my sarcasm. But! ya gotta be joking,?. Right????

Yes, I have. just about any place you can think of I have been there.
I wish I had a recorder, and taped what was said, to let others hear it. and Gasp!!! to what you hear, of how they reject and buck pass.

What do you think I have been trying to do, DO I not yell out,?.
DO I not voice my pains ?. do I not spill my guts ?.
do i not share my feelings, this is the only place I receive any form of support.
I do not lie, when I say, even life line refuses to counsel me.
Nobody in this city will left a finger to help.
I already state, come spend a day with me. and just see for yourself.

The point everybody here is missing. Is that, I dont see my children, DOCS wont let me. my post on my son court day proves that.
the endless ph calls and emails to my sons lawyer. no response. post on that to.
You guys have had and have seen. even part time, you have. I dont. see. I dont even know what they look like.

that it cutting me up. 3 children I have not one iota of.
How do you think I feel ?. how do you think I should react?.
I already asked you for help...............

what happens when say, my 4 yr old is now 15. my youngest would be 13.
what is out of the blue. they happen to meet, and one says, Hey. you look like me. you act like me. whos your dad????.

take any road after that? to a out come.

But who lied to them of me ?. if not DOCS, then their mothers.

one day they will want to know, that day for me, is far to late.

Then where is this support everybody claims are out there?

Hi,

well I read so far and still have to read the above 3 or so postings.
I just wish to add that I tipped 20,000 (remember I remortgaged my house) into solicitor's fees to keep going to court against docs.
And in hind sight I don't think it did anything. I actually wonder if I had just sat back and did nothing (should have spent the 20,000 on a holiday for myself!!) I think the outcome would have been the same.
So for the past year I have been going hard at my mortgage to catch up since the docs after math. that's the legacy I am left with from docs in our lives!

AND today my child says to me as we are waiting for child's father to collect child. child says 'mum who is my real dad?' He was referring to docs being in our lives. child has mentioned this to me before.

And just for the record (excuse me on this bit) but my periods started today. No wonder I was sounding so crabby when I made that anonymous phone call to an organisation last evening. I feel like a bus has run over me. I have no energy, my legs are aching and my ankles are puffy etc. Not to mention my intolerance factor. Normally I am smiling and full of life. I just want to hide from the world today. I'll be ok by tomorrow.
Bring on menopause - I say.

I feel very bitchy and sarcastic and nasty today. So watch out!!!

Yes where is the support, You have asked so many for help but to no avail

From another forum:

I rang a local lawyer, Anderson Telford Lawyers, Spoke to a Andy.
I am knowing by them.
Without him even knowing the full details, he tells me to goto the duty lawyer, and adds,, Thats all Old champ and I just hung up.
As I did, I knew I shoulda recorded it.
Also rang a very nice lady by the name Of B.Holborrow.
She listened and at the end of it. said couldnt help, but lead me to a ABC reporter.
I found the documentations to how to take DOCS to court.
They Are:( and I hope I gave details, Right? to them)
In the federal court of Australia Queensland District Registry. A one sheet form as a Affidavit.
FORM 1: (Title)Uniform civil procedure rule 1999 Approved forms(10,001)
Supreme(1) court of Queensland, In affidavit format
FORM 2: (Claim)Civil Procedure Queensland(10,005)
Supreme(1) court of Queensland, In affidavit format
FORM 5: (Originating Application)Uniform civil procedure rule 1999 Approved forms(10,020)
Supreme(1) court of Queensland, In affidavit format
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now why cant I obtain a lawyer or anyone with the know how to help me fill these up in the legal professional manner.

Why hasnt a lawyer that might be reading these forums, looking at this and saying "gold Mine"?.

because they are all in bed together

and they say we have filthy dirt smutty minds that pray on children. and here they are sleeping with them...lol....who should really be investigated ???.