As the debate over the concerns of abuse to children and who has done it, Is not the only concerns in the picture.
As Docs use these children as a Tool to obtain control,They also abuse the relationships.
If that pains and suffering of losing the children wasnt enough,Losing the love of a relationship is the icing on the cake to DOCS.
Sure they may not be right there at that moment, ripping away.
But they are the start to it.
Man has a different reaction to women.
Man will say things never meaning to hurt and woman will react as,he dont care and he dont love.
The added friction of distance adds to the issue.

How can everybody just turn a blind eye to that, And the concerns of Children over rides everything?.

Without mums and dads,There is no children,without LOVE there is no family.without dreams there is no hopes.
Children can not just be the focus,it is all connected, we all suffer when DOCs invades.children,mums,dads,family, Love.
We all react differently in that pain.
But why Kill Love?.

No - it is not just the children that suffer. But it all depends on circumstances also. Children are not able to provide themselves with protection - adults are supposed to do that for them.

Agree. no argument at all.concerning the children.
They suffer emotional, as much as the mother and father do.

Concerns should also be to the family unit. who else at 3 am in the morning is there for you?. Only your partner.
To lose that partner and the love from her,is also a emotional concerns that no one looks at.

Yes, agree the children are the focus. DOCs abuse is connected from children to parents,to families and to relationships.
Love is a Emotion,and under these conditions, reactions are done.
Trying to mend,what is wrong to what is right, nobody wants to take that first step to say Sorry,lets have a half way point,lets communicate on a mature professional manner.
Writing here I do in confidence, try writing a email to the WJ, was so hard. getting a response will be like DOCS, wont get one,that is positive.

Relationships can be very complicated. I am having problems right now due to an outburst i had last night and now i am getting the silent treatment on New Years Eve. Lots of fun.

just as good as a build up to Xmas eve and getting dumped.
so, form my bad events, Please try to communicate, losing that love, hurts so frking much, losing your best friend feels like death.
DO you guys want that added to your already burdens?. Its NOT worth it, two are better the one. a team.
Dont let love die for no reasons.

Tell him, he is no less a man to cry, to say he loves and needs you.
Tell from me, The pains is so great.

LOL He isnt in the talking mood at the moment. He wants out. He says he's sick of my tantrums. Im just going to stay clear away from him at the moment.

You know him better the anyone else, as you knows you.
All it takes is a note,a txt, a email.
Am i that Old fashion???.that love is not worth fighting for?.

Yes it is - but im going to wait for the fire to burn down before i tackle it

I wish mine would of thought the same way

Happy New Year

Overcast and very quite, here today.

and the same to you......HNY

Happy New Year to you guys. I just finished working today and then painted a bit of the fence when I got home, not too exciting my way.

Well, it's Day 2 of yet another year of ongoing DoCS rubbish and I am counting the days until my next meeting with the fools.

They want to meet after January 19th to plan out the next step of the reunification rubbish. This would be months 4-6.

I intend to listen to what they have to say... Then tell them plain and simple that I want to go back to court.

They have given me grounds over the past 3 months to take them back to court... I don't mind at all - I'm happy to do it.

Well, day 2,here. Nah!! so good. WJ: no longer supports me, or this,as she stated.
I am believing more that I was a Excuse to something else for her to end the relationship in the way she did.I added more to it,in my human reaction which didnt help much.
Now,its on ya own and do it for yourself.

As far as I know,I still have at lest 2 more court date, with the first now, Destroyed,. My chances to prove,I am innocent is all Gone,With WJ: now not supporting the truth.

The 2nd court is over my first GF that had the children removed.God knows why, been over 2 yrs.
What the hell would she want from me???.

If there is any hope left, the class action is the very last one.
So, I can have my life back, so I can find that woman that just wants me for me, so I can love again in the right way and not lose that love over Nothing.
Thats MY last Hope.