Out of the ordinary for a post here, but not rude.

It is interesting though, why some people are more endowed than others. It's got to be a good 64 thousand dollar question! I mean, given all the spam emails about miracle enlargement products that I have received. And so many women are having breast enlargements these days. I feel sad about that for numerous reasons.

But I have no answer and really no idea regarding size. Unless it is the up-size-me culture?

Looks, hence size, do attract people to each other. But the interesting thing is, what one man finds hot in a woman, another may not. And same for women with men. Best to find the woman who is hot for what you got rather than changing yourself to suit someone you know or don't know.

I fell in love with my husband's soul before I saw him as we met on-line. His looks were definitely secondary to me, and when I first saw him, he seemed like a stranger for the first few minutes. But it only took a few hours for his body to merge with the soul I knew so intimately. And then I fell in love with his body as a projection of his soul. Soon I found that all the categories in my mind of what is the best-looking features were filled with all of his.

So in other words, instead of trying to find someone who fits the bill physically, find someone who fits the bill with heart. Because who knows where your beliefs about physical good-looks came from? Some may have been dictated to your through the media, movies, previous crushes you had on people, pastlives, etc. Falling for looks alone is like falling for the icing instead of the cake. It is easy to make a piece of cardboard look delicious with decorative icing. Ask the bakery shop display window dresser.