Ooo, good idea! I hadn't thought of it in this way. I had instead thought of it more black and white like he either has entities visit or not, but of course he can decide!

And I loved what you had to say about autism. I also think he sees easily and is simply open to it. I hadn't thought about explaining to him that he is seeing more. You keep giving me new angles from which to see and I'm so grateful!

Along these lines with explaining to him and using the smudge stick, I have noticed a lot of spider webs accumulate in his room. I started realizing I needed to check for them and sweep them away. I think that somehow this is similar to the way smudging works. If that makes sense.


This is probably the part that "turned" this thread I'm thinking. I shouldn't speak for Jaime, but I'm still gonna have a stab by saying that I think disrespect was far from her mind and more along the lines of thinking outside the box from which she was brought up in (as she had a religious upbringing). My

I'd love to keep the love flowing between us (it's so amazing) and so I understand and think it is reasonable to stop chatting about something if it is becoming uncomfortable.

Meanwhile, here's a wheelbarrow full of love for both of you!