good concept Alisa! I love reading this and it has a synch in it with me today. I was watching Oprah and she had on Shirley Macclaine and the two was talking about How you have to please yourself and to stop being a people pleaser because it inhibits your soul for growth. It's all about self worth and connecting with the divine god that is within, in order to do that you have to let go what is expected of you from others and learn to live accordingly to what your inner self is expected from you to gain in this life time. So right on sister! you always know what you're talking about. I'm so glad to be able to learn under such a powerful goddess