Originally Posted by Alisa
I think you are saying that I have chosen to use the negative path as far as you're concerned, which is okay with me, as you say it is a valid choice, so that's cool. When you say "considerable programming from birth" do you mean by parents and environment? And would you please give me an example of what this type of programming is so I can see if it fits me?
An individual may draw from either polarity with work done. A negatively progressing individual will naturally seek greater of the negative polarity and conversely the positive from the positive. Reality is much more 'involved' shall we say. There are influences, there are stumbles on the path tread.

Considerable programming is a generalized statement. It varies with each individual, due to choices of the individual, choices of intentional influence and receptivity, to again state a generalized overview. Those most likely to serve the larger agenda are usually groomed accordingly, those most likely to bring light to the darkness are targeted accordingly.

On types of programming, which is a complex topic in itself, we shall categorize at this point the parents and siblings; the environment; the metaphysical.

An example of programming utilizing primarily a body/mind/chemical pathway - a dietary deficiency of magnesium, potentially leading to states of irritability or depression, with all consequential results thereof.

Originally Posted by Alisa
I also really want to see the positive path from your point of view if possible. In other words, can you give me any hint or explanation as to how to relinquish emotion (without using my say "no" technique)? stop

I could give an example. For the moment however, I'll ask you to re-read the first sentence of your own quote, in particular the fourth word. Consider along with the actual question you have asked.