It's all about how the person who is on the other end of these comments feels.
Never has a truer word been spoken.
EVERYTHING is all about how the other person FEELS.
Personal opinion is not meant to play a part in cases - but it most certainly does!!!
If a parent ticks off their CSO enough, they will suddenly find themselves having contact visits cut or removed all together and if the CSO absolutely detests them, they will find a way to gain custody of the child until he/she reaches their majority.