I think the point of my post was missed...I didn't say that people couldn't be angry, I didn't say that people couldn't vent. The point was not to vindicate anyone or to make them feel that they had no right to feel any way or that they were not normal by feeling these things.

My post has two purposes: Firstly to have people think about whether their anger was jusitifed (and it obviously is) and if they were directing it in the correct way. And secondly to think about the repercussions of posting these toughts/anger etc on such a public media when we all know that Child Safety is watching.

As I stated before, I would hate for any of our members to make further problems for themselves with Child Safety. We all know what they are capable of, with creating lies and trumping up cases against us. All they need is ammunition, and it can sometimes be that the smaller it is the better for them.

Sniper I apologise if my post upset you in anyway, and if it upset anyone else for that matter.

I am not against any of you, I am WITH you.