one lad's psychiatrist promised him that he would never have to go back to his paternal family if he didnt want to....they only wanted him to visit...after much harrassment from him and the morons, he went, only to be told that he will be taken from me....and this was on every visit....and never be able to see the maternal family again....this was the bully paternal grandfather.....the money man.....who said often....money talks and bullshit walks....and the morons condoned this behaviour being said to these boys........