hi all
i have just found this site, so far it has confirmed what we are now going thru...
our seventeen and a half year old son split from his ex...the ex and her new man put my sons 5 month old daughter into hospital on several occassions (son was unaware) fractures ect: docs are involved (6 months) but so far have come up with one excuse after the other about why my son( who is the non-offending parent and who has a clean history) cannot have his daughter...age , willing or able the list goes on, every time it looks like we are getting somewhere they throw up more hoops for him to jump thru....we travel 5 hours every week so he can see her (one visit)...the ex and her family won't be getting her (so docs say) they have said time and again that my son will get her...the husband and i applied for kinship and were cleared for our blue cards but now because of a malicious phone call from a family member docs have put a stop to the proceedings and have said because hubby has been to jail (40 years ago at the age of 17) he is deemed as dangerous and that unless the son and i admit to hubby being dangerous they will have to start from scratch again...i am soooooo frustrated and sad for my son and granddaughter who are the innocent parties here...(my son has to live at home at the moment, due to an injury he is on unemployment)the son has been having un-supervised visits for the past month but i am betting that will change...they even came out and did a saftey inspection and said everything was fine ....the solicitor is still saying it's all going good (court ordered conferance in december)but these people scare the hell out of me...
chasing my tail wen