Hello,

Have you parents ever considered the issue of not over compensating by over indulging your child because they were once snatched away by docs?

I am pondering upon this myself at this point in time in my child's life.
I also think I may have alway over compensated child because father doesn't pay maintenance and for a long time bought nothing. and then woud tell me to 'spare nothing on child'.

I felt guilt that chid had this man as a father.