And before I answer Mr Sniper.

I also read about how all these private carer type companies are gleaming lots of money for these children classified as difficult. So why can't the money be sent towards keeping the family unit together?? the parents are victimised instead.

And as a side issue I bet docs/ government body later go in and later reassess these kids after a certain time frame and then scale their rating down of the child and their needs so they can then be placed back into group housing situations and presto they would decompensate in their behaviours. this would be done due to cost not through concern for child.

See I am personally convinced that the government DOES NOT really care one bit about any child in this state. It is about money.